How to Budget for a Wedding
Planning a wedding is exciting, but sticking to a budget can be challenging. Here’s a simple, step-by-step guide to help couples manage their wedding expenses, prioritize essentials, and still create a memorable day without going overboard.
1. Start with a Realistic Budget
Begin with an honest conversation about how much you can afford to spend. Consider any contributions from family and set a firm number. Most couples in the U.S. spend between $20,000 to $30,000 on their weddings, but the key is to create a budget that’s comfortable for you.
2. Prioritize Your Top Three
Identify the three most important aspects of your wedding—maybe it’s the venue, catering, and photography. Allocate a larger portion of your budget to these areas, and look for ways to save on items that aren’t as high on your list.
3. Break Down Your Budget
Typically, wedding expenses fall into these categories:
- Venue (30-40%): Your venue is usually the biggest cost, so choose carefully.
- Catering (20-25%): Food and drink are often the next most expensive item, especially if you\'re catering for a large guest list.
- Attire (10%): Factor in your wedding dress, suit, and accessories.
- Decor & Flowers (10-15%): Opt for in-season flowers and simple decor to save.
- Photography/Videography (10-15%): Capture memories with a trusted professional.
- Miscellaneous (5-10%): Include stationery, transportation, and favors.
4. Go Digital

Digital wedding stationery is a total budget-saver! No need to spend on envelopes, stamps, or printing—everything is beautifully designed and sent with just a click. Plus, skipping the mailing process saves you time (and stress). It’s an easy way to cut costs without sacrificing style. With so many options out there, we’ve found the most elegant (and helpful) one. Lovebird takes care of your digital invites, wedding website, and even guest communication—helping you save money and time while keeping things effortlessly chic!
5. Trim Your Guest List
Each guest impacts your total costs, from food to venue space. A smaller guest list can lead to big savings, and it makes the event more intimate.
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6. DIY Where You Can
DIY decorations, invitations, or even wedding favors can significantly reduce costs. Just be mindful not to take on too much to avoid added stress.
We have endless DIY ideas you can check out HERE
7. Save on the Date and Season
Choosing an off-peak wedding season (like winter or early spring) or even a weekday can help you save on venue and vendor costs. How cute are these two on their snowy wedding day!?
8. Track Every Expense
Use a wedding budget app or spreadsheet to track every expense. We have even created a free budget tracker on our site you can use free - access it here. Small costs can add up quickly, so regular tracking will help you stay on target.
9. Don’t Forget the Hidden Costs
Taxes, gratuities, and setup fees can be sneaky expenses. Include these in your budget so you aren’t surprised.
Setting a realistic wedding budget allows you to focus on what truly matters: celebrating your love. By following these steps and keeping an eye on expenses, you can create a beautiful wedding that doesn’t break the bank.
- Wedding Blog: Wedding Chicks