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1940s Inspired Relaxed California Wedding

Elegant bride in flowing white wedding gown

With a loosely based 1940s theme, fantastic food, stunning flowers and one dozy of a dress, Zach and Leila had their perfect relaxed California wedding. All held at the infamous San Diego wedding venue, Darlington House. A place that still echoes a lifestyle of gracious living, elegant dinner parties, and delightful musical concerts.
It is quite difficult not to have an impossibly lovely wedding here. You can see even more of their wedding in the full gallery here, all beautifully photographed by This Modern Romance.

Elegant wedding invitation suite with RSVP card and envelope

Elegant bridal gown and Kate Spade heels ready for the wedding

Bride in embroidered wedding dress and veil

Bride and bridesmaids prepare for wedding

Father hugs bride, groom watches happily

One of the 1904s components were Leila's hair and makeup. Pins gently placed in her up-do and crimson red lipstick. Both done by  10.11 Makeup and Hair! This vintage-glam look paired perfectly with her Elizabeth Fillmore dress. We cannot forget to mention the lace Claire Pettibone lace back that added that extra bit of glitz to her already glam look. Do you love?

Bride holding delicate lily of the valley bouquet

Elegant wedding couple portrait staircase scene

Happy bride and groom on their wedding day

From the Bride...We got married at the Darlington House on May 25, 2013. We were really inspired by the Darlington House, which has a very elegant 1930's/40's look to it. We fell in love with its timeless beauty and its intimate atmosphere. We had a loose 1940's theme, which included my dress, the flower arrangements and the signature drinks.

We were also inspired by the relaxed California lifestyle and the Darlington House's proximity to the beach lent itself to this. We tried to make sure that our reception felt like an outdoor dinner party, with great food, drinks, and music. This meant cutting out a lot of the traditional reception events, but it was definitely worth it in the end!

Elegant white bridal bouquet held by bridesmaid

Elegant gray bridesmaids with white flower bouquets

From The Bride:Zach and I decided to mix our two cultures to come up with a ceremony that represented us as a couple. I'm Persian, so we had a Sofreh Aghd, which is a table with decorative and symbolic items on it that represent the couple's new life together. We also incorporated American traditions, including having a wedding party and reciting vows. We were married by one of our dear friends, and the ceremony was very heartfelt and sweet.

The mirror and candle sticks on the Sofreh Aghd were the same ones that my parents used at their wedding. My mom had them retouched with silver leaf to give them a fresh look. We spent months scouring antique markets to find the Fenton bowls on the Sofreh Aghd and the lavender vases on the dinner tables. Our florist, Nancy, was able to find lots of beautiful antique etched glass vessels for the centerpieces. Etsy was also a great go-to place for a lot of the decorative elements.

Wedding ceremony table with flowers, mirror, and treats

Wedding Sofreh: Nuts, sweets, mirror, candles

Bride walks down aisle with father, guests applauding

Bride and groom sharing a wedding ceremony tea

Bride and groom kissing at wedding ceremony

Happy bride and groom on their wedding day

We DIY'd all the wedding day paper products. I have to give Zach a lot of credit, because he hand painted, then heat-embossed all of the programs by himself!

He also made the white wine sangria that we served during the cocktail hour. Everyone has been raving about it since then! My mom sewed all the fabric items for the ceremony, including the chair cover (tulle and all!) and my dad helped us construct the Sofreh table.

Elegant floral centerpiece with pinks whites and purples

Elegant wedding table setting with fruit and flowers

Elegant wedding table setting with champagne and flower

Outdoor wedding reception with purple floral centerpiece

Elegant wedding table setting with flowers and table number

Fine dining featuring ravioli and steak at a wedding reception

Outdoor wedding reception with bride and groom seating

 The other thing that made the wedding really special was that we had family and friends from all over the world come to celebrate with us. It was an incredible feeling to look around and see all of the people we love in one place.

Zach and I are excited to have our wedding featured on Wedding Chicks! I have been thinking, and I honestly don't think we would have done anything differently at the wedding. The day went even better than we could have ever imagined, and that is in large part because of our amazing vendors. My one advice for other couples is to focus on the things that are most important to them - for us, it was photography and the things that would have a big impact on the guests (i.e. food, drinks, and decor).

Elegant white wedding cake with floral decorations candles

Elegant three tier wedding cake with sugar flower decor

Black and white wedding dance sparklers portraits

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