Photo: @indiaearl
One of my favorite parts of the wedding (next to the handwritten vows) is the first dance, is that lame? Oh well, don’t care. It can certainly be among theee cheesiest parts of the reception, but it’s also the cutest. Couple of newlyweds dancing around, slightly tipsy, super smiley, and probs a little too sweaty too. The best part of it is the song. And the couples who do it right end up picking something that’s completely personal and not played TO DEATH on the radio. They’re the songs that guests end up tuning into the lyrics halfway through during and thinking ‘oh s***, this is really good.’
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To me, a first dance song is sacred and something that should never be an afterthought. By the time I got married, I had been dating my husband for eight years. We had tons of songs that rocked our souls together, ones that we turned waaayyy up in the car together, and ones that we just loved embarrassingly together, you know the guilty pleasure songs (can’t EVEN begin to say how many times we put “Irreplaceable” on his iPod and each sang in our seats without looking at the other one #beyoncedoesthattoyou). And we knew we wanted something perfect for our wedding, so we chose “Chasing Cars” by Snow Patrol - yes, well aware that it’s basically been used as an anthem for anyone who’s ever died in Grey’s Anatomy. My backup was “These Are the Days” by O-Town. Ummm. But that has more to do with the fact that that was the first song my husband and I ever danced to. We were 16….
The Snow Patrol lyrics were just everything, and we knew all the words. Our band hadn’t ever played it before, but we made sure they’d rehearse it and have it 👌 for our wedding. And they did. It was awesome.
And to help out, we’ve rounded up 12 of our favorite - and not-so-basic songs - some that even our staffers danced to at their own weddings - that are totally stealable.... and beltable.
Photo: @hailes8
H.E.R ft Daniel Caesar - Best Part
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vBy7FaapGRo
Leon Bridges - Beyond
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ELPOCJvDz3w
Alabama Shakes - Hold On
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Le-3MIBxQTw
Sixpence None The Richer - Kiss Me (Oldie but CLASSIC goodie)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8N-qO3sPMjc
Summersalt - Sweet To Me
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OfxJ8iRAtPk
SZA - Garden
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pcJo0tIWybY
Rhye - Song For You
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=No9CLpAI1aI
Everything But The Girl - Night and Day Cover
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ENY8rqRW_gs
Penny And The Quarters - You and Me
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H8rumyup0Os
The Internet - Wanna Be
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KkzYuvdCVGY
Etta James - If I Can't Have You
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q96CHjLecWE
King Harvest - Dancing in the Moonlight
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hMc8naeeSS8