Does He Do This On Social Media?
Although our main focus here at Wedding Chicks is all that mushy gushy love stuff, we are also realists. Love is hard to navigate and takes a lot of work.
If they're not on their "A" game in all the "relationship departments," you may want to join the many celebrating National Splits Month. Yes ... that is a thing. Speaking of departments, one of the biggest is social media habits. Certain behaviors tend to be red flags.
See if your SO display one of these six social media behaviors?
As everyone can agree, social media is a blessing and a curse all at the same moment. In the case of your love life, it may feel like a curse. Gone are the days when you are just waiting for him to ring or text you back, now you have to factor in his social media behavior as well.
If he displays the following 5 behaviors on social media, then you should either have a serious heart to heart or run for the hills really fast.
Photo Source: France Duque & Jesse Rambis
Too many selfies
You check out his social media and it's oozing with photos of himself. On a plane, topless, eating a burrito, with his new truck and our favorite gym selfies.
We will be the first to admit we love a topless Justin Bieber photo, but we don't want someone we are going to be in a potential relationship with half naked on the internet for all eyes to see.
Photo Source: Justin Bieber Instagram
Double Taps In All The Wrong Places
Yes ... we know these girls are #instasexy, but if you see that he is constantly liking and <3 a ton of hot models on Instagram, then, of course, you're going to feel a little weird, intimidated and slightly grossed out.First off ... do you expect us to look like that? Secondly ... why can't you just check out the photo and not actually double tap. Please and thank you - love all the ladies of the world.
Photo Source: France Duque & Jesse Rambis
Needs Too Many Alone Moments
He constantly writes posts that he is going offline, taking time to reflect and be one with nature. Each time he announces his victorious break from the shackles of social media, he posts an ultra-romantic selfie of himself on a hike, at a waterfall, camping alone in the desert and so on. Of course, we definitely appreciate taking the time to be present, but why are you announcing it?We aren't therapists or trained professionals, but it sounds like he might have a case of the "look at me I am so incredibly DEEP-itis." If you see this behavior occurring more than once a month, then we highly suggest seeking a new companion.
Warren J Sea is the lovely fellow on the kayak, and if you check out his IG he doesn't announce anywhere that he is going offline to reflect, he just posts awesome photos.
Photo Source: Warren J Sea
You're A Secret
You've been dating awhile and he is the king of selfies. He constantly asks you to snap his photo, but he never posts photos of you or takes any photos with you.
Now ... if he has an IG following of 1.5 million and wants to keep his love life private then we get it. If that is not the case, we would bet $100 that he wants to appear single and is waiting for one those hot Instagram models that we mentioned prior to DM him.
Hold on tight to a man that wants to take a Dirty Dancing photo of the two you like this one. Taken by Devin Jenkins Photo. This guy wants everyone know that he is in a relationship with one hot babe.
Photo Source: Devin Jenkins Photo
Story Stalker
He constantly watches all your stories but takes about three-four business days to return your text. Now ... you know that this is bad behavior, but he is interested because he watches your story ... right? He then likes a photo 3 days later, still no text. If you have not started jogging away from him, it's time to sprint.He does not deserve to see you in your new Le Rose playsuit. There will be no playing! Buh-bye!
Photo Source: Le Rose