Use these tips to get the perfect first kiss photos
From the first dance to cutting the cake, there are many must-have photos to include on your wedding day shot list. Yet none are as iconic—and essential—as your first kiss after saying “I do.” It’s your symbolic announcement to the world that you’ve entered a new chapter of life as a married couple.
Plus, you’ll no doubt want to remember that sweet moment for the rest of your lives. And what better way to commemorate your wedding day than hanging a beautiful photo in your home that captures your first kiss as newlyweds?
But here’s the thing: You only get one chance at a picture-perfect kiss. (Well, maybe two — keep reading for more on that.) If you want to nail your ceremony kiss for the cameras, follow these four expert tips and get ready to lay one on your other half.
Practice your pucker
Sure, you don’t need an excuse to smooch your soon-to-be spouse. But hey, practice makes perfect! In the spirit of perfecting your ceremony kiss, it’s worth sneaking in a test run or two in the buildup to your wedding day.
Lovelace Design’s Christina Lovelace is a strong advocate for pre-wedding practice kisses. “Before your big day, get some practice time in,” she says. “Figure out where you will be placing your hands, the length of the kiss, and how far back your head will be tilting. Do what comes naturally and keep it cheerful.”
Bonus: There are few better ways to destress from wedding planning than with a good, old-fashioned makeout session. (Just say it’s for…research purposes.) So grab your favorite chapstick and have some fun!
Give your officiant a heads-up
While your wedding photographer is a pro at capturing big moments, it’s wise to enlist your officiant to help with positioning for the perfect photo. See more of the real wedding above captured by Mandee Johnson Photography here.
“Have a discussion with your officiant and ask them to do you two favors: make sure you are centered throughout the ceremony, and ask that your officiant step off to the side during your first kiss,” recommends Sarah Olson of CityLux Studios. “A centered first kiss with no distractions behind you is a recipe for perfection!”
If you want to support your photographer even more, ask your officiant to request that guests refrain from taking pictures. An unplugged ceremony allows everyone to enjoy the experience in the moment while ensuring your professional photos are free of obtrusive smartphone screens!
Take your time
Try not to rush your first kiss as newlyweds! It might feel uncomfortable with people watching, but remember that it’s the moment everyone wants to share with you. You’re officially married! Take a moment to sink into the kiss — your guests will love it (and so will your photographer).
“Hold the kiss for a few extra seconds to ensure that your photographers get the shot,” encourages Megan Breukelman of Megan & Kenneth.
“No quick pecks; make your first kiss count!” Lovelace agrees. “Kiss just long enough that the photographer can capture the moment fully but short enough not to make a sloppy mess of your makeup.”
The goal isn’t to make Grandma blush (save those kisses for later!) but simply to relish in this once-in-a-lifetime moment together.
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Plan a second kiss
While you might be antsy to get to the reception, many wedding photographers recommend adding a second kiss during the recessional. After all, there’s no such thing as too many kisses on your wedding day!
“We love to do a ‘second kiss’ halfway down the aisle,” Breukelman shares. “This is always a shot that couples love as much, if not more, than their first kiss. They can be surrounded by loved ones who are hyped and celebrating this moment.”
Olson agrees, noting that a second kiss allows you to mix it up and try something new. “If you did a traditional first kiss, maybe opt for a dip during your second first kiss,” she suggests. “Spice it up a little more, and enjoy it!”
There will be many opportunities to share a kiss on your wedding day (and beyond!), but your first one is a special moment you’ll want to relive for years to come. Take it slow and lean into the emotions — you’ll end up with photos that shine a spotlight on your love for one another. Now, get to practicing!
Meghan Ely is the owner of wedding PR and wedding marketing firm OFD Consulting. Ely is a sought-after speaker, adjunct professor in the field of public relations, and a self-professed royal wedding enthusiast.